Friday, February 27, 2009

They call me mellow yellow

Turtleneck: can't remember
Skirt: Urban Behaviour
Tights: H&M
Pumps: from Taiwan

I was going to wear this as my offbeat office look, but changed shoes, tights and skirt once I looked out the window and saw rain (hey, judging by this photo it looked quite bright out!). As you can see, I was experimenting with my poses. The thought process of this outfit was to begin with a severe all black ensemble and pulled back hair to evoke a sophisticated, reserved look. However, as common readers will know, I do like to put a spot of fun in my looks, so I had to slip on this pair of patent buttercup yellow pumps to lighten things up a bit, and I think it totally makes this outfit! The only thing missing is a flirty yellow chiffon neck scarf! Perhaps once my shopping ban is over I can look for one.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Lust of the Week: Glam Lightning Bolt Shift Dress



Lately I've been missing Asia. There is something so vibrant about the cities over there, you can literally feel this pulse of energy that picks you up in a wave of heat and humanity - plus the fashions are so fun!! Fashion is all about creativity and the fun in expressing all your various moods via clothes. As soon as I saw this dress on AsiaJam, I was drawn to its casual club-kid during the day vibe. With artists like Lady Gaga and Lights filling the media-scape, the futuristic glam pop trend is super-hot, but it can be difficult to wear in reality (who really wants to go out in only a leotard and glittery headband?). This slouchy t-shirt dress is perfect for evoking the space-age trend, but without breaking the bank, or looking bizarre. Pair this item with slouchy black booties and a bunch of thick plastic bangles, or for the brave, a pair of hot magenta liquid leggings and you'll definitely be !

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Healthy and delish - part 2!


Since so many of you seemed to love the steamed chicken recipe, there is now more yumminess in store for you! Being High Maintenance, not Bitchy reader and MizzJ friend, Mr. T, has kindly offered his extensive cooking skillz and delicious take on this dish! Here is his very detailed version below:

A short time ago MizzJ shared a recipe for steamed chicken and potatoes with mixed veggies. I felt inspired to try steaming food and also try to bring some color to the food, despite the general lack of colour produced by the steaming process; so last weekend, I tried steaming as a cooking method for the first time. Just to add some stress to the experiment, the whole family, totalling 6 people, were invited over (not my idea!) to try whatever the result was.

I envisaged a smoky hot chicken (spiced with chilies) in smoldering red color, and slightly sweet potatoes, flavoured with garlic, chives, and onion. Also adding a side dish from a family recipe for steamed mixed veggies, and some cucumber to round out the dish (and to save my ass in the case that everything else turned out horribly wrong).

Let’s start with the tried and true recipe for steamed veggies:

  • 5-6 carrot sticks, chopped to about 1/4inch thick (I also halved or quartered the fat end of the carrot)
  • 3 celery stick, chopped to about 1/4inch thick.
  • 1 head of cauliflower, cut up into 1-1.5inch chunks
  • 1 bunch of broccoli, cut up into 1-1.5inch chunks. Stems should be cut off and chopped to 1/4inch thick so they cook properly.
  • 2 tins of cream of chicken soup
  • Mix it all up a little in a large microwavable bowl, cover with plastic, and cook 20-25 minutes, stirring every 5 minutes.

This will produce enough for 6 people and then some.

Other useful tidbits:

  • For smaller portions, the ratio of amounts your looking for is 2 parts carrots, 2 parts cauliflower, 2 parts broccoli, and 1 part celery.
  • 2 tins of soup will provide a lot of thick sauce. Less soup will make a more runny sauce.
  • Half the recipe will be cooked in 10-15 minutes, so adjust your cooking time based on the amount you’re making.

For the rest of dinner (again, for 6), I used:

  • 1.1kg boneless chicken breast
  • 900g package of small potatoes (cut in halves or thirds so they were all about the same size pieces)
Chicken

To get the red colour for the meat, I chose a number of spices that would produce that and combine with each other fairly well.

Chicken Spice Mix:

  • 1 tsp chipotle chilies
  • 1 tsp dry mustard
  • 6 cloves garlic, pressed
  • 4 tsp fresh oregano
  • 4 tsp wine vinegar with raspberry juice
  • 2 tsp lemon zest
  • 4 tsp basil

Mix up the spices in a bowl until they are well mixed. Rub the chicken pieces with the spice mix. Throw the meat in the steamer until it’s done. Unfortunately, I don’t have a time here yet. I followed MizzJ’s suggestion of 10 minutes at a high temperature, then 20 minutes at lower temperature. However, I don’t have an actual steamer - I was using a colander and a large pot half full of water. 30 minutes of cooking made the chicken overcooked and dry. It seems to me, the chicken “looked” done a lot earlier, and I’ve since gotten a tip that if you can push something blunt (like a chopstick) through the meat with relative ease, then it is done.

Before the chicken is done steaming, put a frying pan on another burner at max heat. The frying pan needs to be hot before the chicken is done. Remove the chicken from the steamer. Sprinkle with paprika. Sear the meat (paprika side down) in the hot pan. Sprinkle paprika on the other side, flip the chicken. Remove from pan to serving dish. Sprinkle fresh chives over the top.

Note: The searing should be fast (10 seconds each side). The meat is already cooked, you are not trying to cook it more. The purpose is to sear in some of the spices, including the just added paprika, and allow the paprika to brown the meat a little.

My results: As mentioned above, the chicken turned out too cooked, so I’ll need to cook it less next time. Use your discretion based on what you have available to steam with. The colour was exactly what I was looking for, smouldering red. Everyone seemed to enjoy the flavour, however I felt I had underused the chilies. I wanted it spicy, and it was not, even to my rather sensitive palate. Also, the smoky flavour of the chipotle chilies was not present enough. Next time I will use more chilies, and try a smoked paprika instead. Also, I had intended to try sumac as a spice in this dish, but was unable to find any in our useless local supermarkets. Sumac is a spice which brings a fruity flavour, and sour tanginess. I substituted what I had that I figured might fit the bill, the wine vinegar with raspberry juice, and the lemon zest.

Potatoes

For the potatoes, I made a spice mix of the following spices:

  • ½ tsp white pepper
  • 2 cloves garlic, pressed
  • 8 tsp fresh chives
  • 4 tsp chervil
  • 4 tsp ground coriander seed
  • 1-2 tbsp lemon juice
  • Chop up the red onion into small pieces.
  • Mix potatoes, onions and spice mix in a mixing bowl.

Throw the whole mix in the steamer until done. Again, I’m not sure I have the greatest time estimate here. I steamed this the same way as the meat. Some of the potatoes seemed cooked properly after 30 minutes, others seemed like they needed more. Perhaps I should have stirred them more often. Given this was my first time steaming anything, I wasn’t sure if stirring was required, so I only stirred them once. After they are done steaming, move them to a serving dish.

Top with fresh dill ripped up into small sprigs.

My results: As mentioned above, not all the potatoes were cooked evenly or thoroughly. Next time I will try stirring more often. The appearance is what I was going for. The red onion adding some (pale after steaming) red colour, the chives adding green, topped with yet more fresh green dill, it looked great. It tasted quite good too I thought, as did everyone else. But I am my own worst critic, I thought it could have been sweeter. The onion was yummy sweet after steaming, but 1 onion was not enough for all those potatoes. Next time I will use 2 red onions and more chives (chives being a sweet herb).

Overall, it was a good first experiment with steaming for me. I learned a lot about mixing spices to achieve different end goals. I look forward to experiment number two where I can try to make this even better. Thanks MizzJ for inspiring me to try this method of cooking!

Monday, February 23, 2009

If this were a JLo movie, Rihanna would be issuing payback right now!



Rihanna released an offical statement recently and according to associates, is said to be "appalled" at Chris Brown's half-assed apology last week, as stated by this video (you may have to click to playlist 2). No kidding! I couldn't believe it when I saw those news photos of her! That guy should go to jail, though rumours are swirling that Rihanna may forgive the "troubled" singer and take him back. She would be such a dumb ass if she did. I sincerely hope that rumour is untrue and that she has the support around her to help her make the strong, and best, decision.

All anyone can talk about though, is what will happen to Brown's career. Personally I don't think there should be a question of him having a career, but others disagree, saying his music is separate from his professional life. Seriously though, if you knew your coworker was a wife-beater, would you want to work with him? And could his personality at home truly be separate from his professional personality? It seems logical to me that if a guy cannot control himself enough to NOT beat up his loved ones, then he likely isn't into "teamwork" and "conflict resolution" with coworkers either. In the unlikely case that Brown's professional personality is entirely different, then I still wouldn't want to work with someone like that because that would imply he is totally duplicitous, which is a terrible quality as well. However, it seems the music industry is an accepting place, considering both R. Kelly and MJ are still revered as great artists. Where is the line to be drawn between one's personal and professional lives? Do people deserve to be forgiven for these sort of acts? Is the fact that someone is a great "artist" enough of an excuse for usually unacceptable behaviour? If Chris Brown is accepted back by the industry with open arms and a cursory attempt at rehabilitation, then is that not a slap in the face of abused women everywhere?

I believe in forgiveness, for those that work to deserve it. If Chris Brown truly worked to rehabilitate himself, then after time, yes he can be forgiven. However, I don't believe that his talent should give him a free pass (nor do I believe he is talented enough to even be considered for that), and that any thoughts of forgiveness on the part of the public should really be tempered by looking at the vicious scars on Rihanna's face.

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Links à la Mode




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In other news, I received this cute award from The Emerald Dandy!


I now pass this award onto:

Stylust Chic
Chic Banana
Fashion Sensei
Brigadeiro

Hope everyone has a great Sunday!

Friday, February 20, 2009

Comfy comfy.. uncomfy?

Striped bow tank: from Taiwan
Cardigan: Urban Outfitters
Jeans: Garage
Flats: Taiwan



This outfit isn't particularly exciting, but the reason I posted it was because I wanted to focus on the cute white flats I'm wearing. Whenever I feel lazy, I try to add in a little something extra to an outfit to spice it up; that way I can be comfy, yet still stylish. Usually that something extra entails either a pretty piece of jewelery, a headband, or in this case, a pair of cute shoes. I love these shoes for their pure white colour and lady-like gold buckle. These shoes also make the most charming clicking sound when I walk that gives me a pure shiver of pleasure. Shoes that click have for me always been associated with being a sophisticated grown-up ever since my first grade teacher, Mrs. H, who always wore very proper pumps and a silk scarf around her neck.

However, while the rest of this outfit is casual-cool, these shoes are not. After wearing them for a few hours, my heels were rubbed tender! So really readers, are these otherwise perfect (and at only a few dollars, perfectly cheap) shoes worth the pain? Fashion isn't without its sacrifices after all, but where does one draw the line?

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Lust of the Week: 1950s Hand Painted Floral Dress

1950s Hand Painted Floral Dress, $375


I'm not sure where I would wear this dress, but I have to have it, if only to play 50s housewife in. This dress is utterly gorgeous, luxurious, and wonderfully unique. Made of silk taffeta, this dress features delicate hand painted flowers, which are etched in gold. The classic 50s silhouette accentuates a teeny waist and flowers outwards in a burst of femininity. Wearing this beauty, I have visions of spinning around, the skirt billowing outwards towards the arm of some dashing man in a matching light gray suit as we waltz off to some fancy cocktail party. I'm all for women's lib, but how come feminists can't wear clothes as pretty as this?

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

The Do's & Don'ts of wearing stripes

What is one way to look fresh and modern, or professional, or how about sexy? One of the most versatile styles out there, stripes are a perennial fashion favourite that never gets old.

Stripes are often given a bad rap - at their worst they can make you look like a prison inmate, or a well-wrapped sausage, but worn right they can totally rock an outfit! However nobody seems to know how to wear stripes correctly and too often we all stumble in the dark when it comes to choosing flattering stripes. Well, I'd like to know how to wear stripes just as well as anyone, so I did some research and now you get the benefit, so read on and learn some Do's and Don'ts of wearing stripes...


Do:


Le ChateauLe Chateau

  • Use stripes as a layering piece for a cool, funky look: One doesn't have to worry about not using the right stripes, if they're covered up with cool scarves, or a cute cropped jacket. It's also a great way to incorporate color into your wardrobe.



Fine Jersey stripe racer back tank, American ApparelLeft: Fine Jersey stripe racer back tank, American Apparel, $19
Right: Stripe pocket frock, American Apparel, $46


  • Wear horizontal stripes: feared for their thickening abilities, horizontal stripes are now everywhere this season. Horizontals help balance out your body, so if you've got a curvy bottom, wear a striped top. and vice versa. If you're more boyish than luscious, wear a dress utilizing narrow horizontal stripes like this striped dress to give the illusion of curves everywhere.


Victoria's SecretLeft: V-neck shirt, $29
Right: Ruffle front shirt, $38
Both Victoria's Secret


  • Try out vertical stripes: Vertical stripes are elongating, so they are perfect for shorties, and those with short waists. Though smaller stripes flatter more those with smaller frames, anyone could get away with smaller stripes if there are other details that detract from the stripes. In the ruffled shirt on the right, the flirty ruffles take center stage, while the delicate stripes add visual interest. When in doubt, go for stripe colours that blend together in order to mimic a solid coloured shirt and avoid that zebra look.



  • Be daring and have fun: This is the most important Do of them all - fashion is supposed to be fun! Diagonal stripes are unexpected and daring; they also act similarly to vertical stripes with their elongating abilities. Both these picks are definite eye-catchers - I love how the one-shouldered sweater puts a sexy twist on the nautical theme, while the flirtatious mini-length of the dress is fun and perfect for spring. Alternately, you could wear the dress in winter by pairing it with black tights and a pair of matching pink flats!

Don't:
  • Wear a tight striped top if you are busty - this will only enhance your curves past the tasteful point and widen your torso
  • Don't over do it: Keep the stripes to one or two items, but not head-to-toe, unless it's a dress.
  • Dark stripes are slimming, but avoid dark, narrow stripes if you are very curvy

If you have any further tips on how to wear stripes please let everyone know!

This post was inspired by a curious T.A - thanks for the fashion question! If you have any fashion/beauty questions, or story ideas, I'd love to hear from you! Email me at mizzjblog at gmail.com!



Update (02/18/09): Thank you to Lisa for pointing out that some people do know how to wear stripes - I stand corrected by my generalization as of course logically there must be people who are able to wear stripes, otherwise where would these tips have come from?

Monday, February 16, 2009

DuJour Magazine and New York Fashion week!



New York Fashion Week is quickly coming upon us, and to celebrate the cool new print/online magazine, DuJour Magazine, is having a "Runway to Everyday" contest! For each day of fashion week, DuJour's runway reporters will report the latest trends seen on the catwalks on the site. Participants then simply check out the latest trends online, and then create an "everyday" version using those trends! Images may be entered via Polyvore, or emailed to fanmail@dujourmag.com Winners are chosen based on creativity and pure style! Submissions cut off at midnight every night from Friday February 13th to Friday February 20th. I know I'll be trying!


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Sunday, February 15, 2009

Links á la Mode



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Friday, February 13, 2009

A whole bunch of mismatch?


White tee, American Eagle
Skirt, Urban Behaviour
Tights, Urban Outfitters
Boots, Payless

I'd read somewhere that black and brown shouldn't be paired together, or that short people shouldn't wear high-waisted bottoms as it makes them look shorter. Well take this fashion police!! I hate your stupid rules that are always changing and restricting me, and everyone else, needlessly. Too often I've encountered people who put back on the rack something that they love because "well, you know, it's not right for me because of the rule that ___". Screw it, fashion rules are meant to be broken!! Make like a Pirate of the Caribbean and think of them more as "guidelines." Sure, they exist for a reason, but if you love something, you try it, and it looks great, then to hell with rules - wearing something you love will look eons better than following the rules like some crazed evangelist. So what's your opinion, is this outfit more of a mismatch, or a righteous snub to fashion fascism?

(By the way, this outfit was also super comfy and covers a full tummy!)

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Lust of the Week: 2001 Yves Saint Laurent Rive Gauche Dress


In the product description for this dress on Shrimpton Couture, the very first sentence states: "This dress is insane." I could not agree more. If you wanted to look up hot in the dictionary, then this dress would be printed there as an example. Imagine pouring your body into this sexy YSL dress. An utterly classic LBD is given a modern twist with a series of gold covered hooks which run down the back of the dress. The hooks are totally adjustable too, allowing the wearer to transform the dress from knee-length, to a mini, a skirt, or reverse it using the silk ribbon attached and turn it into a halter! The ribbon is not originally from the dress, but was added for the one time wearer who wore this dress on a red carpet and never again. What a shame, but not for the lucky person who decides to purchase it!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Valentines Day gift guide.. for your man

Valentines Day: the day that all men in relationships break into cold sweats and clammy palms striving to meet the ever skyrocketing hopes of their lady loves. Women are hard creatures to please; we expect stars to fall at our command, white horses and carriages, and of course something even better to top it all next year. However is a man to cope? While I'm sure there will be lots out there with answers to that question, I thought I'd ask us women to think of our man on this "day of lovers" and treat him to something nice! Now, being a high maintenance woman, I of course expect my man to do something meaningful (or at least expensive) to show his affections, but I would not expect him to do it without me having to lift a single finger in return. Good high maintenance women know to give as good as they receive and that the key to getting a quality man is to treat him like one too.

Unlike women, romantic gestures aren't exactly the first thing on a man's gift list; a man prefers something that he can use and enjoy in a tangible manner, rather than a list of "key moments" in your relationship. Avoid the awkward "thanks.. it's uh.. just what I wanted" with gifts that will keep him happy, and won't break the bank!



guinnessGuinness beer

Men love their beer, if not Guinness, then he will definitely have another favourite brand.




Coach Water Buffalo slim bill fold
Coach Water Buffalo slim bill fold, $98

Valentines Day, though much hyped, is still a minor holiday, so don't bust out for anything too extravagant unless you're in the tax bracket to do so. This Coach bill fold is expensive enough to impress, but is also highly useful. A man's wallet is like a woman's purse, so it's important your guy have a wallet he won't be embarrassed to flash around. This one from Coach features 6 credit card pockets, a bill fold, and 2 multi-purpose pockets to hold all your, er his, money.




Everyone likes smooth, clean skin, especially when their girl is running her hands on it, so keep his face silky smooth with this gift pack from The Body Shop. Containing Peruvian Macca root and Brazil nut oil, this trio will moisturize and protect, while the facial brush will scrub away dullness and impurities.




Gears of WarGears of War 2 for XBox

In case you didn't know, guys love video games. One of the hottest games this season is Gears of War 2. Featuring cool graphics and the latest killing action, be prepared for hours of aliens, explosions, and much macho grunting. The game is also pretty fun if you try it out yourself! Hey, if you can't beat them, you might as well join them.




Men love to eat, and every woman wants a man who can cook, so bring these mutual desires together with this cook book! Full of easy and quick recipes, this book will have you finally getting to fulfill your Jamie Oliver fantasies.




Finally, nothing is sexier than a good smelling man. This cool scent features notes of Sicilian mandarin, juniper, musk wood, and oak moss that will have you climbing all over him - and trust me, that is the best gift he could ever have.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Healthy and delish!


Steaming is a healthy, delicious, and especially easy way to cook a great meal. When you think of steaming, visions of overcooked, bland, food comes to mind, but this doesn't have to be the case! If done properly, steaming can be full of flavour and nutrients as opposed to boiling where the nutrients are lost in the water, and is as simple as chopping your ingredients up, throwing it into a steamer and waiting.

Steam Chicken breasts with vegetables

1 skinless, boneless chicken breast
3 new potatoes, washed with peel on
several pieces of sui choy to line bamboo steamer
bamboo steamer
Montreal steak spice (or combo of salt, pepper, paprika and whatever yummy spices you have)
1 cup of frozen veggie mix

Sprinkle steak spice lightly over sui choy and lay flat in bamboo steamer. Sprinkle more spice liberally onto both sides of chicken and rub into the meat. Chop potatoes into quarters. Throw chicken and potatoes into steamer and cover. Place steamer in a wok 1/2 filled with water, or alternately on a wire steamer rack in a large pot. Cook at med-high heat for 10 minutes until steam billows out, then lower heat and cook for another 20 minutes. About 10 minutes before chicken is done, cover frozen veggie mix with water in a pot and bring to a boil. Serve and enjoy!

Update (Feb. 11): I forgot to mention, but I also had tossed in some minced garlic (and optionally I've heard chives taste great too) into the steamer to add extra flavour!

Monday, February 9, 2009

Product Review: Estee Lauder Spotlight Skin Tone Perfector

Estee Lauder Spotlight Skin Tone Perfector

Considering it's the dominant feature on your face, having good skin can help a lot to achieving a flawless, natural look. Though this product cannot promise you instantly clear skin, it can help you on those horrid mornings when you feel like crap and your skin is a blotchy mess. Estee Lauder's Spotlight Skin Tone Perfector ($32) contains a mix of antioxidants, vitamins C and E, and a little bit of shimmer to moisturize, protect, and give you a youthful glow. Though the product directions tell you to apply the product to your entire face, I would highly recommend not doing so. The shimmer in this lotion is colored a slight iridescent pink that wouldn't look flattering across the forehead, or other areas not normally pink. The best use for this product is as a highlighter along the areas you would normally apply blush, like the apples of your cheeks. It's also great for those who are rushed in the mornings since it is practically goof-free and gives you a fresh appearance. As for its skin tone evening abilities, the product does seem to remove blotching, but for more major cases of redness, foundation is a much better solution.

Final Verdict: Gives your cheekbones a subtle, rosy glow and erases minor blotches. Satisfaction, if not perfection.

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Links a la Mode


  • 39thandbroadway.com - We are fierce, fabulous, fashionable women; now show us our freakin money!
  • A Few Goody GumDrops - A Few Goody Gumdrops scoops an interview with famed fashion editor, Lien Ta about Oscar Style and Fashion!
  • Calgary Fashion - Calgarian Up and Coming Designer raises the bar for Project Runway Canada contestants.
  • Couture Allure - An open letter to Blumarine about body image in their advertising.
  • fashion in my eyes - Tour de Paris
  • féte à féte - Givenchy spring beauty colors!
  • Independent Fashion Bloggers - IFB wants you to DRESS UP for a global soirée
  • Iwanttowearit. - Karl and Katsyua Kamo rock the paper and scissors for the Chanel couture show. Arts and crafts never looked so glam!
  • LeCityKitty - An even edgier option of black polish, Flatte Black by Knock Out. Oui Si Chic
  • Little Black Book - Exploring the fusion of fashion and music through singer songwriter Lady GaGa
  • Mademoiselle Robot - Worshiping John Waters & getting inspired by his films
  • Modelizing - bergdorf goodman 5f window display
  • Or False Glitter - Pondering negative male perceptions of my style!
  • reLYME - Smashbox’s new spring live brings out your inner muse.
  • Shopping and Info - Shopping and Info found Angelina Jolie’s Hippie Chic black dress for Spring 2009.
  • Solo Lisa y Nada Mas - Menswear-inspired looks for the ladies
  • Style Symmetry - Eyeliah sits for 10 artists to paint her portrait… not naked!
  • Style With Anna - Valentine’s Day Contest - Win This Fabulous Necklace!
  • Technology Starlet - Journey of a Pro Fashion Techie and her HP Mini Vivienne Tam Edition
  • THE COVETED - Packing light for the compulsive over packer.
  • the musings of ondo lady - Meet Chanel Ward, the fabulous blogger who brings us Hip Candy as well as six other blogs including Michele O. Style.

Can't get enough? Then check out the rest of the Links a la Mode or check out this lesson in excess by TrendyShoeShop.com on celebrity shoe addictions!

Friday, February 6, 2009

Thanks for the drinks.. and the sickness

Once upon a time, or say last week, two lovely ladies went out for a proper rollicking girl's night out. The plan was to emulate the legendary spicy ladies and dress to the nines, tempt multitudes of men with our feminine wiles, and generally drink and be merry. The dressing up part was solidly down - we were so well dressed that two random weirdos stopped us on the street simply to tell us we were beautiful, we'd just finished a jug of deliciously fresh white sangria, and were on our way to a club we'd never been before. Visiting a new club is always a cool experiment as you don't know what to expect beyond the hype and hearsay. They should really rename this club Bar Yuppie since it is located in the yuppiest neighborhood in Vancouver and I had never seen so many patrons flashing their Blackberries and iPhones as I saw here - even compared to Vegas!

We were playing the night by ear so we hadn't called in for guest list, but we weren't worried about getting in as we were first in line and we were girls! Girls always get in easy right? WRONG. Our buzz and our patience wore thin as we waited in the cold night while group after group of DUDES passed by us. What gives?! The guest list lineup was filled with guys, all slipping the bouncer a sly buck, that just kept waltzing through, while the regular line consisted of me, Lisa, and another group of girls behind us. One man even had the nerve to complain about the cold AS HE WALKED RIGHT BY US. Personally, I believe the bouncer had to be blind or something because why else would he leave two attractive girls out in the cold?

Desperate times called for desperate measures and the girls behind us suggested we take off our coats and flash some skin to get in. How degrading, but it was a worth a try! Off went our coats and out came our cleavage. I'm not sure if teeth chattering is hot, but it seemed to work for all the men in line... except the head bouncer manning that precious velvet rope. Perhaps we should have stuck twenties down our necklines since it would seem that all he saw was green. After 10 more minutes of waiting, it seemed our trick had some effect because we were finally let in.

Inside the club, the decor was mostly exposed brick and wooden floors. There are two main bars and a sizeable dance floor with a VIP area near the DJ booth. It was rather annoying how the coat check was downstairs and not near the door. Also there was no separation from the bar area and the dance floor meaning constant traffic. However, the DJ was pretty solid and the crowd rather friendly, although flaily (not good). I loved the bathroom in the club as there was a great little seating area with couches and tables perfect for resting one's feet, and for other girls we saw there, for rolling joints.

My final impressions of this night was a cold two days later, and a sense of disgruntledness. This bar really needs to replace that bouncer because he is clueless to the fundamental business model of a club: girls = boys = boys buying drinks for girls = money! It really doesn't get much simpler than that. Also another thing annoying about this club was that drunk guys should really keep their hands to themselves. Grabbing at random girls passing you by or grinding randomly IS NOT going to get you anywhere except a dirty look, or even a slap in the kisser. Take a lesson from the other guys at the bar: say hi, be polite, and ask her first if she would like to dance.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Lust of the Week: Anthropologie's Carmenes curtain

Carmenes curtain Anthropologie
Normally this is a strictly fashion and beauty blog, but fashion can include home fashion can't it? If home is where the heart is, then having a stylish home is just as important as having stylish shoes... well, maybe not as important. Having recently gotten my first long-term apartment, my eyes have been opened to the possibilities of home decor! However, shopping for home decor still isn't as fun as shopping for clothes, mostly because it tends to be require more handiness on my part to install - lessons on how to use a hammer anyone?? Currently my windows are covered by the utilitarian venetian blinds provided by my building and while they serve their purpose in keeping out light and prying eyes, they are downright boring! I'm not sure if I'm allowed to install curtain rods in my place, but if I am, then I would love to install these beautiful Carmenes curtains from Anthropologie. These gorgeous curtains are made of soft cotton, are machine-washable (though I wonder if they would plug up a machine?) and feature the prettiest soft grey and gold floral motif. Prices range from $126.15-$151.90

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

50 ways to make a girl fall for you

I just saw this post on Factoidz.com and had to repost it because it is just so true. Pay attention guys!! And for the ladies most of the things on this list can also be modified to apply to your man. In my experiences, I've been with guys that fulfilled some of these things, but nobody that did it all - can such an awesome guy really exist out there?

  1. Listen to what she has to say.
  2. Remember what she says.
  3. Paying attention even when she isn’t around. Example? “I remember you telling me you love that song by So-and-so. It was playing the other day and it made me think of you.”
  4. Let her know she comes into your mind even when she isn’t around.
  5. Compliment her.
  6. Make her smile.
  7. Give her enough space to maintain her desired Independence.
  8. Be there when she needs you. Even if it seems silly to you. Problems affect different people differently, so try to understand.
  9. Don’t let her get away with disrespecting you. This may come as a surprise, but in every relationship, there will times where boundaries are tested. She won’t fall for someone who let’s themselves be walked all over. Let her know that you will always respect her, and you expect the same in return.
  10. Trust her. Jealousy is only attractive to those immature enough to find it flattering. In reality, jealous can be a very ugly thing when it goes to great extents. Trust her. If you don’t and can’t trust her, then you don’t belong in a relationship with this person.
  11. Be worthy of her trust, and expect her to trust you as well. This is one of the keys to make or break a relationship.
  12. Surprise her. It doesn’t have to be anything big. Maybe just showing up at her house or work to say hello, if she likes that sort of thing. Maybe the next time she comes over you have her favorite dessert waiting, or anything you know she likes.
  13. Make her feel welcome in your home. It can be awkward in the beginning of a relationship getting comfortable in a new place. Assure her and do small things to make sure she feels at ease. Later on, don’t make a huge fuss about letting her leave a few things at your place. If you want her to stay over, then it’s nice for her to have some toiletries or extra garments around, so she can feel fresh and prepared.
  14. Do something out of your comfort zone, especially for her. If you never cook, cook her something. If you can’t dance, but she loves dancing, take a class together. Try something she loves, even if it is unusual for you. Who knows? You might even end up loving it.
  15. Be happy. Sometimes all it takes to brighten someone else’s day is to have a good one yourself. Happiness is infectious. Be a fun loving person, and she’ll want to be around you.
  16. Give her something to look forward to. Let her know that on Wednesday or Monday or Friday or the 24th, you have something planned. It may not be your anniversary, it may not be Valentine’s day - it’s just any old day. But something is going to happen on it, she doesn’t know what, and that makes it special alone. She’ll look forward to it all day, all week, or all month - however long you think is long enough and short enough to make her feel excited.
  17. Make things special without spending any money. Flowers, chocolates, wine, dinners on the town are all great, but it’s also important that even when the weather is dull and you don’t want to leave the house, or you’re saving your funds for something else, that fun won’t be forfeited. Light some candles and give each other massages. Watch a great movie that you both love, and prepare some special treats for the evening. Cozy up with some tea, coffee, hot chocolate in a big arm chair and just talk.
  18. Laugh off the small mistakes. Don’t make a big ordeal out of every minor, little thing she might do wrong. Be easygoing.
  19. Dress up for her. Maybe you’re a casual type of guy, but once in awhile, throw on that tuxedo t-shirt and let her know you want to look nice for her. I’m sure you love it when she dresses up for you.
  20. Be active together. Whether you run, walk, swim, hike, ice skate, hit the gym, snowboard, ski, toboggan - get the blood pumping and have fun getting active together.
  21. Send her a random e-mail. Or an IM. Or a text. Even if you live together and see each other everyday, it’s nice to get those sweet little notes.
  22. Sneak a note into her pocket.
  23. Explore a new place. There’s something about experiencing something entirely new for both people that’s a very good bonding experience.
  24. Unlock her car door first. Chivalry isn’t dead.
  25. Mind your manners. Some guys like to burp, shovel in their food, make outrageous innuendos with their buddies. Keep in mind that your girl might not have the same sense of humor.
  26. Give her an endearing pet name. Know each other’s boundaries, and know whether these pet names are to be used only amongst yourself, or in public. Discuss it before to avoid embarrassing either of yourselves.
  27. Keep your sexual business private. Avoid hashing all of the dirty, or not so dirty, details of what goes on between you. This shows her you respect her.
  28. Ask her opinion on different things. She may just offer it anyways, but she will definitely notice if you ask for it before she had the chance to offer. This shows it matters to you what she thinks.
  29. Encourage her in her passions. If she is taking up a new hobby or pursuing her career, tell her you think it’s awesome that she’s happy, and that you know she’s going to hit it out of the ballpark if she puts her mind to it.
  30. Misbehave together once in awhile. Stay up really late. Eat that chocolate cake. Indulge in something you probably shouldn’t, but do it together.
  31. Reminisce. This might sound silly if you’ve only known each other for a day, but a lot of girls are sentimental. Re-hashing good memories feels good.
  32. Take those photo booth pictures together in the mall. Let her pick her two favorites, and you take the other two. It might be silly, but it’s fun, and it leaves her with a token of a time where you acted like goofy kids and had a great time doing it.
  33. Smile, smile, smile. Especially in the early days. If you’re smiling and looking happy, this is reassuring to a girl that you’re having a good time, that you’re happy with her.
  34. Go traditional, and get her flowers. Or a flower. For no reason.
  35. Buy tickets to a special event. A concert, the symphony, the theater, a comedy show, a sports game, a movie she’s looking forward to.
  36. Be the perfect gentleman around her family. Make an effort to get along with them, be polite, and inquire as to how things are going in their lives.
  37. Get a fortune cookie made up with a hilarious message inside, that could only be for her.
  38. Be honest.
  39. Be confident.
  40. Be yourself. No false advertising. If she doesn’t like you for who you are, then you don’t belong together anyways.
  41. Tell your friends that she’s great. It’s not like you have to ramble on for hours, but it goes a long way if, upon meeting her, your friends can genuinely say ‘I’m so glad to finally meet you, my buddy has told me so many good things about you.” She will be beaming.
  42. Wrestle. Play. Tickle her. Have some childish fun.
  43. If you’ve been together for awhile, kiss her like it’s the first time all over again.
  44. If it’s your first kiss, start off gently. There’s nothing worse than a halfway assault. Relax and take it easy.
  45. Look through photo albums with her Mom, if she invites you to. Enjoy it, even if she is a little embarrassed. It shows her you’re interested in her, more than just a hook up or a fun fling. Being interested in where she’s come from and how she grew up let’s her know you want to know what she’s all about.
  46. Make her feel smart. It’s one thing to be constantly told you look hot/pretty/cute/sexy, but it’s incredibly empowering to have your man let you know he thinks you’re smart, too.
  47. Give her credit where credit is due. Is she an unreal cook? Say so. Is she good with numbers? Acknowledge that. Does she make beautiful jewelry? If you’re out at a social gathering and it comes up, let people know in a casual way. “Yeah, Angela actually dabbles in photography and it’s really good.” She might be a little embarrassed if she’s modest, but it will feel good anyways.
  48. If you know she’s coming over after a long day, draw up a big bubble bath. Even if you’re not getting in with her. This gives her the opportunity to unwind and relax. It feels good to have someone acknowledge your hard work, and it will feel just as good when she returns the favor.
  49. Write her a poem, or make her a song, paint her a picture. Whatever you strength is, create something for her. If she’s so wonderful, let her be your muse and show her how she inspires you.
  50. Take care in the details. Know what’s important to her - birthdays, anniversaries - and take care of those things.
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Tuesday, February 3, 2009

I think, therefore I shop

I think that I have a problem. Before, back in my student days I was too busy doing projects, stressing out, and paying tuition to give into my constant shopping hunger. Whenever I see something I like in a store, my mind automatically calculates the various ways I could wear it, however when I'm supremely poor I manage to rein myself in. Well, lately the monster has been unleashed!! Blame it on the fact that I live treacherously close to all the downtown shopping and that there are sales popping up everywhere, and well, I just can't help myself. The situation is terrible too because it's not as if I'm exactly rolling in dough now (living downtown is expensive), so I am very much not looking forward to receiving my next Visa bill. In any case, at least if I'm poor, I won't look it! This last weekend was especially expensive as I did dineOut with Lisa (at Baru Latino, very delish and highly recommend) and then checked out the Tension sale on Friday, and then Sunday I went shopping with Phaedra, who I was supposed to "help" shop. Note to self: never shop with fellow fashion obsessed again.


Tension Mandarin dress
Tension Mandarin dress: Tried on 3 different sizes for this dress as it fit extremely snug around the boobage area! Great self-esteem booster for those of us who usually never have such problems. This rich brown dress features some great pleating in the back as well.
Spring criss-cross heels: These resemble a hybrid of heels and booties for me and they are much more comfortable than they look! I scored these babies for $15 off the Spring sale rack.


Coy Cat buttercup yellow dressCoy Cat buttercup yellow dress: Also purchased at the Tension sample sale! This dress is the most delicious buttercup color and ties in the back. The neckline is quite low, but it's balanced by a demure knee-length hemline.


Silence & Noise convertible pencil skirt, Urban OutfittersSilence & Noise convertible pencil skirt, Urban Outfitters: As soon as Phaedra and I saw this skirt, we immediately keyed in on its extreme hotness and I dove in to look for sizes. A liquid leather mini-skirt has always been a secret fantasy of mine, and while this one isn't leather, it's close enough and as shiny as I dreamed of. It's also more versatile than you'd think, since in the change room I paired it with my turquoise Guess sweater, creating a surprisingly classic/edgy look. The possibilities of this skirt gives me chills.
Ankle booties, Spring: I bought these babies for 1/2 off at Spring, the same time I bought the other shoes above. I'm such a sucker for a good deal, and these two shoes were basically a 2 for 1!


Silence & Noise Super-shiny leggings, Urban Outfitters
Silence & Noise Super-shiny leggings, Urban Outfitters: To be clear, I wouldn't wear this top with leggings; I still stand behind my opinion that LEGGINGS ARE NOT PANTS and will henceforth only wear these sexy-ass leggings with tops that are appropriately long (i.e. cover at least 50% of my bum). Also, comparisons of said leggings to LiLo will be thoroughly ignored. My only hesitation with these is whether they will get really hot after wearing them a few hours? If you know the answer to this question, please let me know!

Finally dear readers, I ask for you to come to my aid in this time of need: how do you resist that terrible shopping urge? What are your strategies to save money?

Monday, February 2, 2009

How to wear long underwear


Alright, I do not claim to be a fashion expert or anything close to that, but I do like a challenge. My first thought when I saw this item on the Free People website was "Wtf?? Are you supposed to wear this?!" Described as a "thermal long-sleeve romper" this Waffle Romper is designed to be worn as a layering piece under dresses and skirts. I think it's safe to say that many who would see this on the rack would just laugh and move on without truly absorbing the actual usefulness of this item. However, if you think about it, a Waffle Romper could be quite handy in cold winter months and during those in-between times in spring. So what are some good pieces to wear with this item?


The Look: Cool Hipster



I know what you're thinking - don't be scared of horizontal stripes! If worn properly, one doesn't need to worry about looking, well, horizontal. The long length of this cardigan should detract from that, and will layer nicely with your romper and a pair of tough black leather booties to complete the look. Heavy black eyeliner is totally not optional.


The Look: Modern Hippy



Next, you could pair the romper with this dusky pink skirt for a casual, hippie vibe like the Olsens. I love the contrast of the delicate embroidery with the tough grommets. The waistband also features a cool smocked detailing that highlights your waist.


The Look: Channeling Alaska



Finally go lumberjack chic by pairing 2 woodsmen essentials: long-underwear-like clothing and plaid. Plaid is back with a vengeance and is popping up with old and modern twists. Tempt your manly man by layering the romper with this sweetly seductive dress - its lace hemline, faux leather cross-back straps, and button-down front will surely leave him weak in the knees.


And if none of these options appeal to you, I bet these rompers would make a great pair of pyjamas!