
This post was originally posted last week on Hand Me Up, a fashion charity project that I am working with that is currently in development. Please check out the blog if you have a chance for updates on this project and for some great articles on fashion, with a ethical twist!
This past week I read a blog post that made me literally stop and think. On the blog Insights, Canadian-Pakistani blogger Marz, writes about the disturing trend that is skin lightening. Whenever you see any ads featuring non-Caucasian models or celebrities, there is a good chance that their skin has been lightened. As well, many of the visible minorities who are hailed as “beautiful” by the mainstream media, tend to have lighter skin and more Caucasian features. Don’t believe me? Take up a magazine and quickly flip through the images with unfocused eyes. You’ll quickly notice that the faces will blur together without distinction.
The fascination with white skin is especially prevalent in Asia, where you can find tons of products all designed to give you fairer skin. Before you start jumping up on the soapbox though, it’s not all bad. In many countries, there is a long standing historical preference for whiter skin as it implied a higher social status, since those with darker skins were often poorer labourers in the fields. As well, Asian skins are more prone to skin darkening and pigmentation when aging rather than wrinkles, so that is also another reason why bright, white, skin is seen as youthful.
I have to admit that after visiting Asia and reading Asian magazines, I became very curious about the color of my skin. Every single girl in the magazines had the whitest, purest, faces and I vowed to have that for myself. Right away I purchased a set of whitening products in order to attempt to make myself fairer, criticizing myself silently when I would wake up having “darker skin” days. I wore sunscreen everyday on every inch of my skin and avoided walking in the sunlight, or tanning on the beach – one of my favourite summer activities. When a coworker complimented me by saying I looked fairer that day, I was secretly pleased with the “fruits of my labour”. Was I really any whiter? Very likely not as the level of whiteners in most drugstore products is too low to have any effect, but as you can tell, the subtle influences of marketing are very powerful.
When you take this idea of promoting brighter skin and just turn it into loving whiter skin, then you wander over that line from healthy interest into dangerous obsession. It was frightening how easily my perception of my own skin colour changed so quickly. When all you see are images of beautiful women with white skin and everyone around you reinforces that ideal, then you become brainwashed into thinking that is what you should strive for. Though I recognize that I should just learn to love what I am, a part of me still can’t give up that pure white ideal. Considering that I feel that I am a strong, independent, media literate and smart modern woman, and I still feel this pressure, then how can younger and less secure woman resist? The only solution is action. Write to editors, write your own blog posts, or videos, or photos, whatever you can to speak your belief that every colour is beautiful! And most of all, tell every woman you know that she is beautiful – no matter what size, what age, or what colour she is.
In lighter news, if you're in the Vancouver area and interested in some sweet deals, come check me out at the Flea-tique vintage and 2nd hand event this Sunday at The Box Studios at 1622 Franklin St! I'll be there selling my "pre-loved" clothes and shoes along with a friend all afternoon! You can check out the Facebook event here: http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=107220782641577&ref=mf
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"And most of all, tell every woman you know that she is beautiful – no matter what size, what age, or what colour she is."
EXACTLY!
I think you are lovely just the way you are. :) At the very least, you're going to be wrinkle-free for a LONG time since you're avoiding the sun. But remember... vitamin D is essential for your body to regenerate cells. So, take some supplements! I do.
Yes, I love Nordstrom Rack. I go down to Portland (20 minutes) and go shopping there. We don't have them here. Cool!... we'll be in the same city!!! :)
I think different cultures view beauty differently. In the States the tanner you are the better which is the opposite but I agree with you that people should just be happy with what nature gave them. Great post ♥
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Aww such a sweet article. I am not sure what the fascination in Asia with white skin? But I find it funny that in the U.S and Europe, people like to be darker and in Asia they want to be whiter. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side.
Really good post! Hope u are having a lovely wknd! xxx
Well, I think fair skin in Asia is well demanded for because of all the reasons you stated. (Would like to add that people seem to want to get something that's difficult to get: Caucasians wanting tan skin while Asians wanting fair skin). I don't really see a problem with it though, as long as people are comfortable with it. I found that sporty girls with tan skin still have tons of fun and confidence.
i agree, great post.
I have never understood the desire for paler skin. I tend to look sickly when I'm pale. Darker skinned and proud of it!
definitely notice that whenever I'm watching Filipino movies. Why can't people just be proud of being their colour?
Personally, I don't like to tan because I've read a lot about the dangers of tanning and skin damage. That's my reason for staying "pale". I don't want to be white, I just want to maintain my naturally paler skin!
very awesome blog post, glad to see someone bringing it up:)
xx raez
Hey!
Great post, I'm so glad that you could be honest to all your readers about the whole skin lightening thing! My sister has actually used Fair and Lovely (an Indian skin lightening product) when she was in Pakistan because my grandmother made her. We were also scolded whenever we went outside mid day to play because of the darkening effects of the sun. I know in the high school I went to, so many other brown people always called me the "white Pakistani" because I have really fair skin. To be honest, it kind of bothered me because people would look at me differently because of it. It was like I was expected to just sit there and be pretty because of my skin colour and nothing else. In our culture, lots of people get arranged marriages and they would always say that I would have no problem getting any one because I was fair. Thank God that my parents don't subscribe to any of that nonsense and that I know that no matter what skin colour you are it is what is on the inside that counts. If someone is truly going to like you, it really is from the ideas and words and feelings that flow out of you, and not your skin colour. And anyone who says different is just plain wrong.
I don't think non-whites want to be be "white." The most beautiful women in most non-white countries still look non-white. Most non-whites prefer their own race than whites. Otherwise, non-white people wouldn't exist.
Skin bleaching ads exists because people always want what they can't have. Especially those who follow fashion magazines.Being born with perfect features are rare for all races, not just non-whites. Promoting common features won't make money. But promoting atypical features and making the audience want what they can't have does. So beauty marketing people pick up on it and exploits it to get people to buy products.
As if Whites don't have negative features such as unattractive pale skin, rosacea, big pointy noses, long but very thin & stringy hair, freckles, flat butts, thin lips, more prone to wrinkles in late 20s/early 30s, and among white women a weight complex (you're always paranoid about your weight no matter how skinny you are).
Yeah, Asian fashion magazines may be hocking "bleach cream" and in black magazines they are hocking hair products. But in white magazines they are hocking tanning solutions, lip injections, push up bras, breast/butt implants, weight loss plans, birth control pills, volumnizing shampoo, hair dye, and etc.
White American fashion magazines are filled with women who do not resemble the average white woman too. Their beauty icons are women with full lips, large eyes, big breasts, round hips, bigger butts, naturally tanned, thick haired, wrinkle free skin, super skinny, and ridiculous small dainty noses. No "pure" white person can pull of the Angelina Jolie look without massive amounts of plastic surgery, a highly involved exercise routine and diet. If you think Ethnic magazines are horrible with their skin bleaching ads, you shouldn't bother going near the super-white American Cosmopolitan Magazine.
Argh..I'm sorry but it just drives me mad. Whenever (mostly white) Americans see advertisement for skin bleaching gel in foreign or ethnic magazines, they get all "It's sad that non-whites want to be white." However, they are blind to their own culture's assault on white women. It's strange because the white races is being advertised in their magazines to get rid of their natural white features as well. Their magazines routinely have articles and ads around the following mantras:
"Get fuller lips."
"The Perfect Tan."
"Top Products for Thicker Hair."
"Lose 10 lbs in 10 days."
"Age Proofing in your 20s." or "Turn back the Clock. Top Products To Get Rid of Wrinkles."
"Hiding your Freckles, Wrinkles, Redness, and other Imperfections with these Top Beauty Aides."
I know more white women neurotic about their looks than I know non-whites. Oh, but if I suggest that white people tan and/or get lip or butt implants because they want to be black. They dismiss my theory saying "Tan skin, full lips, or a bigger butt just looks better."
If that's the case, why can't non-whites say the same about wanting lighter skin, fake hair, or double eye lids? The US and its mostly white population is the no. 1 country for plastic surgery. If white is perfect, than why are so many white people getting plastic surgery? To look more white?
currently in china and the obsession that women here have for fair skin is frightening.
altho i have to admit, i am inspired to protect my skin from harmful UV rays but i cant ever fully give up on achieving a sunkissed glow
but great post as always
I'd rather be tanned any day. Sometimes I'm scared to buy Asian products online (eg. at Sasa) because some of them don't have English and I'm scared they have whitening ingredients in them.
Plus dark and tanned skin makes you look slimmer. =P
Beauty is like intelligence, not limited by race, size or color.
I wrote a guest post about beauty on the Beauty and a Budget blog last September--I think it was her least popular post ever! But it was fun. If you have time to read it, the link is:
http://beautyandabudget.blogspot.com/2010/09/baab-guest-ricademus.html
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